The Tree Who Set Healthy Boundaries - Topher Payne - ★★★★★
AUTHOR & ILLUSTRATOR: Topher Payne GENRE: Children's Picture Book RATING: 5 stars. In my childhood, I had read Shel Silverstein's The Giving Tree and I remember having mixed feelings about it. I felt sorry for the tree who didn't get anything in return after doing so much for that ungrateful boy. Of course, you can look at the story as a fable of selfless love but as the years have passed, I have come to believe more and more that selfless love isn't possible without self-love. One must learn to set healthy boundaries even in close relationships if one has to stay mentally satisfied and not drained out. That's where this book comes in. The basic concept is the same as in the original book. But from a particular point , the story transitions into one where the tree speaks for itself and sets a clear limit. This, it does without being rude. it speaks to the boy (now man) in a firm way that one needs to have an empathetic relationship with fellow beings. If you ha...