The Five Love Languages of Children - Gary Chapman & Ross Campbell - ★★★★.¼

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AUTHORS: Gary Chapman & Ross Campbell
SERIES: The 5 Love Languages
GENRE: Parenting, Self-help
PUBLICATION DATE: June 1, 1997
RATING: 4.25 stars.


If you follow the Nas Daily page on Facebook, you might have seen a video he recently posted on various love languages. Unfortunately, the source of his idea was this book which he only showed for barely a second on the screen and didn't even mention by name.

I very rarely read self-help books. I can't digest the platitudes being thrown around. One big exception to this rule has been the 'The Five Love Languages' series. Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell have worked a simple idea in such a brilliant way, I wonder why this book is not more popularly known. I have read The Five Love Languages of Children, and am now midway through the first book, 'The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts'. (Yeah, I know, I'm going the other way around: pehle bacchhe, phir patidev! 😆)

The Five Love Languages of Children was a big eye-opener to me. As my elder one is slowly reaching towards her teen years, I have been sensing a disconnect between the two of us. But after this book, I realised that the two of us are speaking two completely different love languages. (This sounds cheesy, but trust me, it isnt!) Identifying a problem always leads to a solution, so I have been able to work on a better understanding with her keeping her love language in mind.

The book is not rocket science. Unlike most self-help books, I found their ideas very practical and easily implementable. And that was the book's biggest advantage for me. It is not full of empty gyaan but has realistic problems with simple solutions and concrete examples to support the same. So if someone like me relished this book, I think everyone can/. Do give it a try. Once I am done with these two books, I am planning to go for the one meant for teenagers also, just to be prepared in advance!

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